SWF on PS4 Issues

I'm new to this game playing for about two months. I only have one friend who I play with and we have so many issues. I don't know if it's because we live States away from each other or just the game. We both have high speed internet and Ethernet cable connection. Oddly enough we have zero issues once we get into a match. We just can't seem to stay in a lobby together or after a match get kicked out of our lobby. Is this just a known issue being worked on? Thanks so much <3