Another tribute to cheers.

MusicNerd_TC
MusicNerd_TC Member Posts: 3,099
edited September 2020 in General Discussions

Dan, most commonly known here as Cheers or CheersTC died on September 13 in his sleep, he was one of the nicest and most wholesome forum members out there, but we lost him to cancer at the young age of 19.

We found out a few months ago that he was battling cancer, and was going through a downward spiral in life.

Before I was banned temporarily from the forums, I got to know him, and me and a bunch of other friends, @Respectfulnancymain @GoodBoyKaru @NoOneKnowsNova Laura and others did swf and custom matches with him, and I have to say, it was the most fun I have ever had in dbd. He was an amazing, funny, and kindhearted human who didn't deserve this, especially at such a young age.

Karu told me today that he died, and it was so sudden, I was speechless.

You all might have seen that a bunch of us changed our pfp to WGLF, hope etc. This was all because of cheers, and his legacy. I am here to pay my respects to him.

Karu was also cheers' boyfriend, and he is going through a lot right now as well, so if you can, try and comfort him, he is extremely depressed and heartbroken right now. But I want to let you all know, that he will carry on, even if he has died, I will always remember him.

Now, to everyone who was aware of the situation, I will tag you @Todgeweiht @bubbabrotha @Dabihwow @azame @Unicorn @Endstille @Elena @MandyTalk @Aneurysm @Demonl3y

Oh yeah, don't think I forgot about you cancer. ######### cancer.

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  • Cornpopers_Evan
    Cornpopers_Evan Member Posts: 2,428

    I’m so sorry to hear this you guys, I may have had very little interaction with him but the little I did, it was always a positive one and I’ve always seen some great conversation and yet again, it was always nice. @GoodBoyKaru, if you’d like someone to talk with, I’m here but I truly am sorry for your loss.

    Biggest and best wishes to you, his family and anyone else associated with him. RIP Cheers, you will be deeply missed.

  • magicmaster2020
    magicmaster2020 Member Posts: 499

    Although I never really knew him or talked to him for that matter he was such a good person. While I know it's a very sad time. I have been raised with thinking of the good times too. I hope there are enough good memories to eventually drown out the depression of losing someone.

  • The_Bootie_Gorgon
    The_Bootie_Gorgon Member Posts: 2,340

    I didn't know cheers, but I recognize the forum name. That just really sucks. RIP Cheers.

  • Xyvielia
    Xyvielia Member Posts: 2,415

    I haven’t been on the forums as long as you guys have, so unfortunately I never got the opportunity to meet your awesome friend.

    I jus wanted send hugs like everyone else, an also wanted to say,

    We’re gonna get thru this, together.

    From how you an others have honored Cheers in your words, I’m certain he wishes only peace an uplifting positivity over your heart an mind as you carry on. In how you passionately voiced your love, it’s clear that you would wanna stay strong for him, no matter what.

    So... you’re going through some [real horrible stuff] rn... Remember, you're not alone.🧡

    We can, and will support you

    Don't do anything stupid. (!!!❣️)


    (btw. I jus used the 🧡 ‘cause it’s supposed to mean care, comfort an serenity. Some ppl take those colors to represent many different feelings, so I thought I’d clarify the feelings I kno we all are wishing over you and everyone impacted rn)

    one day at a time... Keep going.

    🧡Blessings to everyone

  • GoodBoyKaru
    GoodBoyKaru Member Posts: 22,791

    And thank you Nova for keeping me updated and telling me all about him. It means a lot and I'm almost certain he's forgiven you.

  • BigBrainMegMain
    BigBrainMegMain Member Posts: 3,826

    What the ######### happened?

    What?

    Dude, #########. I'm so sorry......

  • GoodBoyKaru
    GoodBoyKaru Member Posts: 22,791

    So the short story, Cheers had cancer, it went south, he caught it too late. Me and him began talking because of it and we started dating on the 17th of August. He was amazing, best boyfriend I could've asked for, everything and more. He deserved the world. Yesterday I learned he'd passed away on 13th. Thanks to coronavirus, I couldn't go visit him to hold his hand and promise him I loved him.

    And I don't want to ever forget a single thing he said or did. He's still one of the best people I know.

  • GoodBoyKaru
    GoodBoyKaru Member Posts: 22,791

    Yeah, 19. He would've been 20 this year. He deserved so much better than the ######### you he got.

  • rottmeister
    rottmeister Member Posts: 316

    I'm speachless

    He was only 19? ######### ....

    Fuck cancer :(

    Rest in peace.

    My condolences to everyone who knew him.

  • Buttercake
    Buttercake Member Posts: 1,652

    I'm sorry Karu about what you are going through. And what you have been going through. I saw a thread before where someone mentioned Dan(who was only written as Cheers) was struggling with cancer. You had posted in it, but I had no idea that Dan and you were together. I would have tried to send kind words your way as well.

    I noticed avatar changes but didnt make a connection. Cause I'm dumb. I would have changed mine as well, even though I didnt know Dan.

    I had no idea he was such a young man either. That makes it even more horrible and unfair. I hate that anyobe has to go through this but he hardly even got to live his life.

    I'm really sad about this. I assumed it was an early find and he would fight for awhile then go into remission. I didnt think he would be actually gone away..this soon? I wasn't lying when I said I would pray for him. You guys, death is so scary to me. I feel so scared by it. I dont want to die and I dont want anyone else to die either(unless they are monsters.)

    Just the other day I was thinking about asking if Dan would like some of my books to read while he recovers but thougjt no one wants to read my books and maybe was a bit embarrased (cause I read kinda girly book 😟) and never asked...but even though he was obviously bad off and probably couldnt have read them, I wish I had asked so he knew how many people were thinking about him.

    I'm sorry Dan that you didnt make it. I hope the doctors were able to help with any pain or anxiety you felt. I hope your famiky friends and KAru were able to give you all the comfort you needed.

    And Karu, man, I'm real sorry about you having lost someone so important to you. I've only lost grandparents in my time, so far. I cant imagine losing a boyfriend or husband..I just cant wrap my brain around the kind of grief you must be going through. I wish you werent going through this and I wish Dan hadnt gone through this.

    I dont know what else to say I real sad for everyone of you guys who struggled alongside Dan.

  • Unicorn
    Unicorn Member Posts: 2,340

    I’ll never forget you Cheers.

    You and Karu have the most beautiful relationship from what I can see & I’ll still be in support of you and Karu til the world ends 💜


    Rest in Paradise you kind Angel 💜


    @GoodBoyKaru @MusicNerd_TC

    Thank you for letting me be apart of this 🥺

    You two are gifts from above.

  • Buttercake
    Buttercake Member Posts: 1,652

    Thats reaaly nice. I didnt expect anything like this. Its very touching...

  • MusicNerd_TC
    MusicNerd_TC Member Posts: 3,099

    Where did you find this karu? I checked both of their profiles.

  • Dabihwow
    Dabihwow Member Posts: 3,409

    Again @GoodBoyKaru I am so sorry you had to go through this, let us as the community be there for you if you need us

  • MusicNerd_TC
    MusicNerd_TC Member Posts: 3,099

    Thanks, that's amazing, holy ######### he would love this.

  • GoodBoyKaru
    GoodBoyKaru Member Posts: 22,791

    He really really would. I hope he gets to see it one day

  • MrDardon
    MrDardon Member Posts: 4,022

    I am so sorry Karu. I can't imagine how it has to feel to lose someone that close and I hope I won't anytime soon. I must say that I was shocked when I first read this thread. I am usually there everyday but more passive by just reading stuff instead of writing but I recognize a lot of familiar names and that just shocked me.

    Again, I am really sorry. It's maybe not the perfect thing to say but I am Christian and I am convinced that his Spirit is now with you and he'll go to the Light very soon, watching over you every day until you see eachother again I am very sure about that. Until then I hope your friends will watch over you, I am sure you met amazing people here in dbd as well who will watch over you.

    I am not the best speaker for those situations but I am really sorry, but since he battled with cancer that much, I think it's more of a relief for him as well, think about it that way. He doesn't need to suffer anymore like he probably did. He is free now and waiting for you on the other side.

    Best wishes from me Karu.

    Sincerely, Daniel.

  • Yamaoka
    Yamaoka Member Posts: 4,321

    Been thinking a lot about all this for the past days yet I still don't know what to say. I didn't get to know Cheers but it seems like he was a really wholesome person. It's just not fair. I'm sorry for your loss @GoodBoyKaru

  • MrDardon
    MrDardon Member Posts: 4,022

    Yeah, he always seemed like a pretty chill dude in the forums. I made a just for fun thread once where I asked community members to decide my Killer. He asked me to do a Spirit I remember.

    I am glad now that I did him a favour.

  • GoodBoyKaru
    GoodBoyKaru Member Posts: 22,791

    I'll never understand how he could find Spirit fun but I'm glad you did that for him. I'm sure it make him smile.

  • Orion
    Orion Member Posts: 21,675

    I'm no good with words, so I'll just say I'm sorry for everyone's loss, particularly @GoodBoyKaru, and ######### cancer.