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Is "gg" after a win bad manners?

Zwergz112
Zwergz112 Member Posts: 199
edited October 2020 in General Discussions

I always say the same thing after every game, whether Killer or Survivor, whether it's a close game or not, whether it's me gettjng facecamped at 5 gens or getting teabagged by 4 survivors at the exit gate, I always say "ggs, well played and best of luck in future matches^-^" and no, there isn't some underlying sarcasm, I don't say "jk lol, you suck lmao" I just think it never hurts to be kind but someone told me it's bad manners to say "gg" after a win, what do y'all think?

Edit: Now if we totally stomp the Killer then I wish them better luck next time and give tips if I can, (especially if it's a fellow Wraith) and if I completely obliterate a group of survivors and they haven't done any gens then I at least let the last guy get hatch or if I'm just doing a challenge then I let up after getting what I need and proceed to spin in circles and let the get some bloodpoints. Usually people are surprised when I'm not salty and respond with due kindness, even when they respond with "4k ez lmao, u mad" I shrug it off. People like that feed off your anger so why give them what they want?

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  • Komi
    Komi Member Posts: 364

    I want to say yes due to how many players have decided to start an argument about the validity of my claim. But then other times they respond the same and we all wish each others "good luck! <3" and go on our merry way. So take some consideration when to use your gg's

  • Mikeasaurus
    Mikeasaurus Member Posts: 2,327

    Whenever I have a match and I get stomped hard as killer, when a survivor says GG afterwards, I just take it as a sign of respect. They could have easily taunted and badmouthed to rub it in, but a simple GG, WP goes a long way for me. These are the kinds of people I prefer to play with. I always give them a GG back, and wish them luck in their next match.

  • Lucas96
    Lucas96 Member Posts: 40

    I once had a match where I was left to die on my first hook by my teammates early in the trial and the killer messaged me afterwards to say “gg” so I just replied with “was it really?” 😂

  • Moundshroud
    Moundshroud Member Posts: 4,458

    For myself, I try to be a bit more expansive than just saying GG; I consider that the minimum. I like to say something positive about things I saw the Survivors (or Killer) do at the end. I don't make up compliments, but in the course of a match one can almost always find something done well even when you destroy your opponents.

    I used to try to give slight pointers or advice, but that is never taken well so I've given that up.

  • Xbob42
    Xbob42 Member Posts: 1,117

    No. "gg" might be short for good game, but people shouldn't infer it as you literally saying the match was good, it's more like a handshake or an acknowledgement of the other people in the match. It's like when you say "good morning" and get a reply like "what's so good about it?" It's just a greeting, man, relax.

    gg by itself is not rude and should not be taken as such.

  • Aven_Fallen
    Aven_Fallen Member Posts: 16,352

    Yeah, thats what I mean. Like, it should be quite obvious that you would not consider it a "gg" at this point.

  • CashelP14
    CashelP14 Member Posts: 5,564

    Gg does seem like a cocky thing to say after a bad game.

    So I usually would text something a bit more than just gg. Something like "Gg. That map is extremely bad for that killer."

  • SMitchell8
    SMitchell8 Member Posts: 3,302

    I usually say unlucky, good effort or keep trying if its say a console nurse or a low rank spirit or something.

  • Zayn
    Zayn Member Posts: 365

    I usually write gg after winning but I don't mean it in a bad way. Sometimes if I feel bad for the killer, I like to add something like "gg man, tough map gl in your next ones"

  • Raccoon
    Raccoon Member Posts: 7,736

    I always say GG, regardless of how the match goes :)

  • RaSavage42
    RaSavage42 Member Posts: 5,566

    It's usually not, but there're outliers...

    Being camped/ tunneled... Dying on first hook... First hook Mori

    All gens done but seeing no survivors... being looped till it's too late (I have this happen to me when I try something different)

    I personally think that if I have to camp/tunnel it wasn't a good game for anyone (so hopefully I don't get hate for it)

  • AvisDeene
    AvisDeene Member Posts: 2,396

    Win or lose I always say gg unless I’m playing Survivor and the Killer tunneled/camped/slugged at 5 gens. Then I don’t even wait and move on to the next match.

  • Mister_xD
    Mister_xD Member Posts: 7,669

    unless the other party made the game extremely unfun for me (e.g. camping, hardtunneling, bleeding me out, genrushing, acting toxic, ragequitting (ill still gg the others), etc) i always say "ggs".

  • Moundshroud
    Moundshroud Member Posts: 4,458
    edited October 2020

    Good practice; if you can't say something nice, say nothing at all. I still say GG even when those things happen to me, but I think your method is the next best thing.

  • lucid4444
    lucid4444 Member Posts: 682

    They might take "ggs, well played and best of luck in future matches^-^" as over-the-top and sarcastic.

  • TimeOutTimmy
    TimeOutTimmy Member Posts: 135

    I usually always give a gg, and then have a quick chat about the game. The more positive dialogue there is, the easier it is to forget the negative crap.

  • EvilJoshy
    EvilJoshy Member Posts: 5,295

    GG is usually polite. Now GG EZ, to me that's rude. Saying EZ feels like your saying "You suck" If the killer/survivors played toxic then I don't say anything at all. I just move onto the next game.

  • HEX_MalusGrey
    HEX_MalusGrey Member Posts: 231

    GG as loser alway's sounds better then as winner. There are a lot of people that only have a GG as long as they have won.

    I would love to see something as in GWENT where there is no Chat. Instead you can reward other players by giving a GG. For every GG given you also get a smaller reward for yourself. In DBD the GG giver would get some BP and the receiver would get some shards. This would be nice. No chat needed, neither before nor after a match.

  • Hopesfall
    Hopesfall Member Posts: 828

    if i get a "ggwp" after a clear genrush i just roll my eyes..especially with map offerings.. if that's fun for you then whatever, i take it as passive aggressive taunting so yes it's BM

  • BlackRabies
    BlackRabies Member Posts: 949

    This sums it up for me as well. Only difference is I never say GG, usually I give a WP instead after a game that I deem was fun for both sides.

  • Zozzy
    Zozzy Member Posts: 4,759

    Most of the time a "gg" is only said by the winning side. So in this game at least, it has taken on a different meaning.

  • lowiq
    lowiq Member Posts: 436

    I just get in the habit of saying gg after every game unless one side played really toxic.

    If you get mad over "gg" then grow up and stop finding reasons to be triggered over everything.

  • Xzan
    Xzan Member Posts: 907

    Saying gg after a onesided game is toxic.

    General rule for me is: Loser says gg first, otherwise you are just telling the other side "Hey, I win, you not, of course good game for me! :)".

  • Moundshroud
    Moundshroud Member Posts: 4,458

    My advice is to purge the word "toxic" from your vocabulary, ignore people who use it, and just practice basic good sportsmanship practices. That would mean saying something nice at the end of the game regardless of who won/lost or who went first.

  • Xzan
    Xzan Member Posts: 907

    My chat is closed most of the time. And if there is nothing nice to say, I say nothing. That's common sense.

  • Moundshroud
    Moundshroud Member Posts: 4,458

    This works too. Although, there is almost always something nice to say, win or lose. We can agree to disagree about that.

  • Dwinchester
    Dwinchester Member Posts: 961

    I am viciously competitive in everything I do, sports and games alike. I HATE to lose at anything. That said, I will always throw down a gg, win or lose. Its basic sportsmanship.

  • PyroGL
    PyroGL Member Posts: 239

    If the loser ggs then the winner can gg back. Winner should never gg first.

  • Marigoria
    Marigoria Member Posts: 6,090

    IMO it depends. Huntress with iri hatchets + belt and an ebony saying gg? Well she can screw right off lol

  • Dwinchester
    Dwinchester Member Posts: 961

    I dont understand that mindset. It's like a handshake after the match.

    Again, why? It's a legal build in the game. Sure its op, but plenty of survivor stuff is op too. I blame bhvr for leaving it in, not the players for using it.

  • Marigoria
    Marigoria Member Posts: 6,090

    Two wrongs don't make a right. I don't use OP stuff as survivor so.

  • sulaiman
    sulaiman Member Posts: 3,219

    Let me ask you: Why don´t you write it after losing?

    IIn this community, its mostly a "haha, i won, you didnt", because it is almost exclusivly used by the winner, and only seldom by the one(s) that lost the game.

  • oxygen
    oxygen Member Posts: 3,335

    Personally I just view it as a sportsmanship type thing to say no matter what, and it has been that way for almost 20 years of gaming for me at this point. But I am aware not everyone views it this way.

    If you want to err on the side of caution just wait for someone else to gg first before you do. If someone somehow says gg and then finds a way to get mad when you do the same in return then I don't even want to know what ascended mental gymnastics they've got going on 😄

  • jerakal
    jerakal Member Posts: 246

    If you just got done bullying the other team, gg is seen as sarcastic 90% of the time. Don't say gg unless it was a close game.


    If one side dominated, unusually day, gg and sorry.

  • Ghouled_Mojo
    Ghouled_Mojo Member Posts: 2,287

    Only to poor losers

  • KingFrost
    KingFrost Member Posts: 3,014

    GG is good sportsmanship.

    GGEZ is poor sportsmanship and makes you look like a tool.

  • Raz_
    Raz_ Member Posts: 296

    depends.. when a killer had a very bad match i mostly just leave the lobby just for the respect.

    sometimes you lose and you just dont wanna hear anything and even when the GG is meant to be nice you can easily misunderstand it and think " they say it because they wanna provoke me" etc

    its on you but i mostly dont say GG when the killer had a very very bad match.

  • Moundshroud
    Moundshroud Member Posts: 4,458

    Everything about this post is wrong. Perhaps YOU see someone wishing you a GG as sarcasm, but it would be better if you gave people the benefit of the doubt that they are just being good sports. I'm going to give everyone a "good game" at the end no matter how the match went, but I'm not going to apologize for beating them.

    Another good follow up is Good Luck and Have Fun in your Next match.

  • Steel_Eyed
    Steel_Eyed Member Posts: 4,033

    Be polite. “You can always be nicer.” Even to the sour players.

  • selflessnea
    selflessnea Member Posts: 580

    I always say gg ( I might throw in a wp if it was a good match on there part) but it always astounds me when the killer/survivor team says you are only saying that cause you won. The only time I wouldn't say it if I lost is if im playing survivor and got out of the game quick and just wanted to get to my next match

  • Deathstroke667
    Deathstroke667 Member Posts: 15

    Not really but it depends on the situation, as someone who has a lot of hours in the game i can definitely tell the difference between people who genuinely GG after a game and the ones who do it in a taunting way.

    I would say its different on PC and PS4 because PC has an endgame chat so why not doing it? But on console, going your way to message your opponents after a win is weird imo.

    I feel like killers do it more, if they got a sweaty win for example, and the survivors still haven't given them salt they will GG them to get a reaction out of them, well in my opinion that's the reason they do it.

  • Johnny_XMan
    Johnny_XMan Member Posts: 6,432
    edited October 2020

    If I am a killer and two people dc at the start and I kill the other two, I am most definitely not saying gg out of good sportsmanship. I will collect my points and go.

    That is one scenario where I would never say it because it's like saying "I knew I could win based on your circumstances in losing two players but I am still going to say good game to your face" when it was clearly a bad game for them since the start.

    Generally I could care less about gg's but that is one time when people use it that I will never understand. It's like if the killer suddenly was unable to use their power and were forced to M1 only... I wouldn't say gg then either.

  • Slashstreetboy
    Slashstreetboy Member Posts: 1,811

    I almost always leave a gg - be it win or lose. In my opinion it´s common decency and rather polite. I appreciate it way more than the usual insults and the demands that I should kill myself.

  • KingFrost
    KingFrost Member Posts: 3,014

    That's not my experience at all.

    I've received ONE message from a killer in my time playing (granted that's not very long on PS4), which was to ask why I didn't farm. (They never indicated they wanted to!)

    On the other hand, I get messages from survivors way more often. Either survivors who are salty, or who want to brag and act like the 14 year olds they are. Sometimes nice messages, too. A thanks for the hatch, or exit gate, or for farming after a DC. Sometimes just a GGWP from people who are good sports. It's a mix, though. I've definitely been tempted to turn off messages because of the salty ones I've been getting more recently, but I also met some really cool people.

  • Hex_Llama
    Hex_Llama Member Posts: 1,846

    I think that, if you won, and it was a normal game, then it's actually more polite to say GG first. It's interesting to see that other people feel differently.

    On the other hand, I think some people try to retroactively make whatever toxic, anti-social thing they just did okay by saying GG at the end, and they count on social pressure to make the other person go along with it. You don't want to look like a bad sport, so you have to forgive everything that happened, no matter how messed up it was. I think there are some cases where, if you have self-respect, you really shouldn't shake hands with someone, or say GG back. But them saying GG to you is not the main problem in that scenario, IMO.