Hit validation still isn't fair

Seriously I get hit around corners as survivor and even hit when the killer swung at the air but no just because i stared a survivor hit them it doesn't work they don't even have dead hard and I still don't get a hit what is going on with hit validation. Other thing dead hard is now a kick in the nards I hit a survivor but no hit detection says doesn't count i'm not one to say it but hit validation is survivor sided.