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Homophobic Slurs Allowed?

It's good to know people can waltz around in the end game chat and just casually use the F word and alike without getting punished, I've reported so many people for calling me different slurs alike on steam and the in game chat report system and It's really starting to get old. boo

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  • PistolTimb
    PistolTimb Member Posts: 1,413

    I always get a good chuckle when somebody calls me that. Such a silly word

  • SasukeKun
    SasukeKun Member Posts: 1,858
  • humanbeing1704
    humanbeing1704 Member Posts: 8,999

    I only report that crap because there's literally little kids on xbox but then again 10 years olds shouldn't be playing dbd

  • Azgard12
    Azgard12 Member Posts: 335
    edited November 2019

    There's really not another interpretation for the word the OP is expressing other than a bundle of sticks, which... let's be real... nobody is using it to mean that.

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  • UlvenDagoth
    UlvenDagoth Member Posts: 3,535
    edited November 2019

    You should never have to just "Take it" when it comes to stuff like that.

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  • brokedownpalace
    brokedownpalace Member Posts: 8,804
    edited November 2019

    Yeah but those aren't edgy enough for him. He's no snowflake!

  • Awakey
    Awakey Member Posts: 3,145

    It doesn't matter what game you play, but homophobic slurs are NEVER okay. I'm no snowflake, but common decency is still applicable.

  • SonicOffline
    SonicOffline Member Posts: 918

    You mean an interpretation you're willing to accept. YOUR lexicon is not the dictionary defining the rest of the world.



    Sorry not sorry.

  • anarchy753
    anarchy753 Member Posts: 4,212
    edited November 2019

    The south park episode "The F Word" was a great one for the issue of saying stuff like that.

    It's only in recent times that the word has even meant anything to do with being gay, so if it's used as a colloquialism for "bad" basically, I, as a gay person, don't really give a #########. It comes off more as "I'm frustrated and hate you" to me than "Your sexuality is a bad thing."

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  • Coriander
    Coriander Member Posts: 1,119

    There's never an excuse to bring race/religion/orientation/identity into it.

  • tylerlogsdon1
    tylerlogsdon1 Member Posts: 158
    edited November 2019

    Not irrelevant, you can't expect every single person to be nice to you in a competitive environment. I'm not saying it's right it's just stupid to expect it to not happen at all.

    Post edited by Rizzo on
  • tylerlogsdon1
    tylerlogsdon1 Member Posts: 158

    Way to put words in my mouth lol, read my reply above this

  • Toxic_Plag
    Toxic_Plag Member Posts: 42

    You guys are funny

  • SonicOffline
    SonicOffline Member Posts: 918

    I do use that defense in the real world, because it's true. I'm literally protected legally by the first amendment in the real world. I'm not protected by repercussions of people who are mad at it's use, but that's frankly half the reason to use the word; for the value you get out of it.

    That's basically how I look at it. "You're doing something I consider annoying and that word sums up my feelings faster than explaining them." Relatively, "If you don't like being called that word, stop behaving in a way that makes people want to use that word."

  • Azgard12
    Azgard12 Member Posts: 335
    edited November 2019

    You're getting a bit away from the point here, but also adding to what I'm saying.

    In the real world, if someone uses a slur against someone, it can be grounds for different consequences. You seem to agree with this?

    And for the record, using a slur that is a group you belong to still doesn't protect you from consequence either.

  • SonicOffline
    SonicOffline Member Posts: 918

    Someone here is starting to sound quite totalitarian. Please stop.


    USE MY WORDS OR SUFFER LMAO KLMAO

  • Azgard12
    Azgard12 Member Posts: 335

    I'm not telling you what words to use. You have freedom of speech. But even on here, there are limits- there are rules.

    Instead of attacking me or directing me to stop and give you a safe space (there's a lot of irony in some of your posts here), I'd love to hear more about what you're trying to communicate. So far it seems to me you're saying it's okay to use slurs because you think some people deserve to be called them if they fit an abstract definition? I'm sure I'm missing something you're saying, so please explain a bit more.

  • SonicOffline
    SonicOffline Member Posts: 918

    It's almost like you can't tell me it's a slur because it's offensive to people, but since I'm part of that group you still feel some overwhelming need to be right.


    I'm gonna let you sit in suspense while I watch some Wraith play. bbl~

  • Azgard12
    Azgard12 Member Posts: 335
    edited November 2019

    It's a slur because it is offensive to a group of people. (Pretty much every slur is born out of a desire to hurt or mock a group of people, often born out of connections between stereotypes and other prejudice- even when self-imposed by the ingroup.)

    I'm honestly not understanding what you're saying anymore (this last post uses some vague pronouns that make me question if you're talking about me, Azgard12, or you, SonicOffline) and by now you seem really distracted and a bit lost in this conversation.

  • MegMain98
    MegMain98 Member Posts: 2,919

    Any slur that could offended somebody is something that shouldn’t be tolerated. It just shows that they are disgusting people.

    Microsoft and Sony are pretty good with giving people communication bans though.

    I’ve been called basically every kinda slur through PS4 even though people have no idea who I am. I had to turn off my messages because it was affecting my gameplay. Like every single round I got some kind of nasty message even when I did nothing wrong.

    It doesn’t personally affect me because I’m extremely quick-witted and sarcastic so I use people’s emotions against them. I guess it pays off to be a Scorpio XD.

  • Azgard12
    Azgard12 Member Posts: 335

    This is a good approach (and PS4 does 72 hour bans when people use slurs on first offense).

    I think the key to all of this isn't that we make apologies for every word anyone could be offended by. For example, if someone called me... a "chicken nugget." Well, that's just a weird thing to say, not offensive. But if someone WAS offended by this, I'd be surprised and wonder why. I probably wouldn't call them that again, but think it was a bit ridiculous.

    The slurs I'm talking about are the ones the gaming community seems to employ too often that we all know are wrong. Many of us have grown up with them or become used to them. Doesn't change that it's wrong and we should know better.

  • MegMain98
    MegMain98 Member Posts: 2,919

    Agreed. Attacking a player’s gameplay is all fine and dandy.

    Attacking a person personally is terrible and disgusting. Personal insults are what people use when they have nothing better to do with their time and they’re mad they got outplayed.

  • MegMain98
    MegMain98 Member Posts: 2,919
    edited November 2019

    I will never personally attack anyone. Calling somebody trash is different than spewing out racist/homophobic slurs that MOST people know is uncalled for and highly offensive.

    If somebody calls me trash then that’s great...I’m golden trash.

    Somebody saying nasty slurs doesn’t personally offended me because I’ve always guarded myself with humor and sarcasm so I find the fact that they are THAT mad to say those insults to be funny.

    Some people might not be the same way though so it doesn’t make it any better on who they throw insults at.

  • Azgard12
    Azgard12 Member Posts: 335

    Keep up the positive approach! We need more of this in the community.

  • Johnny_XMan
    Johnny_XMan Member Posts: 6,432

    @SasukeKun

    I agree. I don't care what your stance is on certain words. It's disrespectful and against the game's rules (aka you get banned for using the word).

  • SasukeKun
    SasukeKun Member Posts: 1,858

    Most game's let things get heated but Racism or Homophobia Etc should be the line.

  • X_Scott
    X_Scott Member Posts: 137

    I met some guys on the internet who want to make a boo cake with me. Not sure what it's made of but it sounds festive!

  • mistar_z
    mistar_z Member Posts: 857

    Jokes on them I am one. ASHSDLASDJ


    But in all seriousness, people have said some disgusting vile ######### on my chats and on my profile, set it to private but they'll track my pictures and reviews down to leave stuff there too.


    I'd get into the the game and occasionally browse another players profile, and I'd still see these people leaving that stuff on other peoples profiles too. like #########. if you spent as much time leaving this vile stuff as you do playing, you'd actually be decent at the game by now.

  • BunnyTheHutt
    BunnyTheHutt Member Posts: 1,773

    You don't have one, and I'm not putting words in your mouth, it's what you are implying by simply saying "man up."

  • SasukeKun
    SasukeKun Member Posts: 1,858
    edited November 2019

    Or maybe be considerate?

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  • Rizzo
    Rizzo Member, Administrator, Mod Posts: 17,876

    Homophobic and racist slurs are neither allowed nor acceptable and they get punished, so please try to be respectful to others and report people who use them, using the in game report system, thank you.

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