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Need Advice On Gaming With Others
So I'm not the best at games and my lack of an ability to git guy is costing me. Many of my friends who decide to game with me quickly find out that I'm inept and it's starting to get to me. When I game with others I just freeze up and to say I throw would be an understatement, others have stopped being friends with me because I'm bad at games
How can I fx this?
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Ok, I'm gonna be brutally honest here, mainly because I was in your exact same boat a while back and being honest is what it took for me solve this issue. You have to have a reason for people to want to be around you, no one wants to hang around someone who is neither good at what they do, nor interesting to talk to. How I solved this was learning to not take things so seriously, and to make others comfortable talking with me. People say opposites attract, but that couldn't be further from the truth, if you want to attract chilled out people who only care about talking and having a good time, then you yourself need to be that person.
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I appreciate the honesty, thanks alot for the advice, I'll take it to heart!
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Maybe you're right, thanks for your input it means more than I can say:)
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Definitely this!
I'm boosted at all games, I enjoy playing games and don't really care if I'm good or bad at them - my friends still enjoy playing games with me though because they are actual friends who enjoy spending time with me (and me them of course).
If people have stopped being friends with you just because you're not great at a game, they really were never friends at all - and count yourself lucky that you've found out now tbh. As those are not people that you could rely on. I hope you find some good friends, who'll enjoy playing with you, regardless of whether you are good or bad <3
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Thanks very much Mandy:D
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