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How do you guys keep going?

totallynotamegmain
totallynotamegmain Member Posts: 658
edited November 2023 in Off-topic

bro I don’t have motivation to do this anymore how do y’all keep this up pls tell me I need advice

Post edited by EQWashu on

Answers

  • mikewelk
    mikewelk Member Posts: 1,669

    Get a SWF and then you won't have to rely on poor matchmaking providing noobs as teammates no matter the hours you have. For the killer side I just suggest not taking it as seriously. Really bad advice, I know, but it's all I got. 😔

  • totallynotamegmain
    totallynotamegmain Member Posts: 658
    edited November 2023

    I can’t make a SWF as I have no friends due to my social isolation 💀

    and playing killer always makes me worry because I feel like killing someone could end up ruining their day


    and I don’t know if either of those are going to rekindle my dying motivation to keep going

  • mikewelk
    mikewelk Member Posts: 1,669

    I was lucky enough to find a friend whilst playing and I never usually accept people's friend requests, I made the exception for them. We don't even talk, we just message, but it makes the experience so much better.


    Don't think so much about others feelings. They have probably died countless times and, as long as you played fairly, they won't really mind. It sucks to die, sure, but that's a killers role after all. They will respect you for playing fairly and, on the odd occassion. you'll get someone crying about it. That's just how multiplayer games are.

  • totallynotamegmain
    totallynotamegmain Member Posts: 658
    edited November 2023

    I’m gonna try but honestly I’m just disinterested in everything to do with gaming and my hobbies. I used to find them fun but for a while now I’ve just found myself lacking any motivation to move on

  • mikewelk
    mikewelk Member Posts: 1,669

    To be honest I'd probably take advantage of that. Try playing single player games like The Last of Us and take a break from DBD. It's such a toxic environment with so much issues yet to be addressed. I don't know why I play it. Really, I don't.

  • totallynotamegmain
    totallynotamegmain Member Posts: 658

    But that’s the thing. I haven’t played dbd for around a month now or any other game, single player or not. I don’t really ever do anything during my day besides work and stay in bed feeling tired but unable to sleep. And if I’m not doing that I’m just doing whatever feeling numb. Couple this with my insomnia and you get a recipe for a very boring and unmotivated life

  • EQWashu
    EQWashu Member Posts: 5,105
    edited November 2023

    Hey totallynotamegmain,

    I am sorry you are dealing with these feelings right now, and send you all the positive energy I can.

    However, the forum is not designed to assist in these types of situations, nor can we offer any personal advice in these kind of matters. Because of this, the thread needs to be closed here.

    Crisis hotline - Wikipedia there are telephone numbers for no matter where you are in the world, which you can reach to talk to someone professionally; and many of these services offer text chats, if you do not wish to talk over the phone.

    These feelings need to be discussed with medical professionals, and that is just not something that can be found here. We can, however, tell you that you are appreciated, and send our love and best wishes.

    <3

    -EQ

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