Girl Problem D:
well. I met this girl on Heroes Of The Storm and we have been talking for a while ad I really grew to like her. Today she had a breakdown about some pretty serious stuff. She has a boyfriend and idk how to tell her how i feel. This is kinda dumb to be writing on a Forum for DBD but its pretty late and I don't want to talk to my family or friends about her. 🙁
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Uuuuuh, I am good with these situations, do you actually know this lady in real life?
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Growing feels for someone is both a blessing and a curse.
Firstly, she already has a boyfriend which almost completely drops possibility. However maybe after the event is over ask her how she's feeling, and if she's stable maybe slightly prod into the subject by asking how their relationship has been recently. I know it starts to feel like a plot, but it's the only thing you can do that isn't up front - although, maybe being upfront might work; risk/reward. Just don't bring something like this up when she's in the middle of the breakdown.
Secondly, if she's a long distance away from you. *STOP*
My first ever real relationship started due to Overwatch, and was pushed even farther by both our favorite musicians doing a live show in London together back in 2017 (For those interested, it was Porter Robinson and Madeon). She flew out from Finland, and yeah it was the best 2 days of my life, but in the end, she went back, and the chances of it lasting after that was zero. tl:dr: distance is DEADLY and NOT WORTH IT.
Hope it all works out for you
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You are making a mistake.
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Ask the boyfriend out. In all seriousness I can’t help you.
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Yeah that was what I was thinking, asking her boyfriend out :)
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She lives here in the US.but in another state. I dont think I could do a love relationship with ehat your saying. I think I would rather have her as a close friend then pursue a love relationship because losing her is worse. thanks everyone didnt think anyone would be serious about this :p
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