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Healing etiquette

If a wounded survivor comes to you and crouches, heal them. If you unhook someone, don’t automatically assume they want healing. If they want to be healed they will follow you. Don’t follow them unless they are immediately heading for a nearby gen that’s close to repaired. Don’t be pushy with healing others at the expense of getting objectives done. Tea bagging next to me to heal while I’m busy fixing a gen is super un-helpful. Want to help? Fix the gen! Maybe I don’t want to heal because I’m running a perk like resilience that only works when you’re wounded. Maybe I have Second Wind. Also, if Nurse is the killer, just assume that it’s unsafe to heal near her within her terror radius.

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Comments

  • Mr_K
    Mr_K Member Posts: 9,244

    @JustZed32 🤣

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    If you suck looping against Bubba, why are you wasting so much time healing? He’s just going to knock you down again! Just use Iron Will and soldier on!

  • km66
    km66 Member Posts: 111

    Totally agree with this post.

  • shadowman0105
    shadowman0105 Member Posts: 261

    Please don’t get me killed or yourself trying to get your autodidact tokens I know it’s a really strong perk when it works but please do it safely. I need to remind myself this when I run it lol

  • VSchmitt
    VSchmitt Member Posts: 571
  • Clevite
    Clevite Member Posts: 4,335

    I agree. Except when you ignore me and I'm 99 percent healed. At least take a second and check to see if that is the case.

  • Volcz
    Volcz Member Posts: 1,187

    One of the more aggravating things for me personally, is when you unhook someone, you know the killer is in another chase so they won't be coming back to interrupt and the guy you unhooked just runs off. Like..ok. If you don't want to be healed, thats fine. If you want the fastest heal, you'll stay put after unhook so I can get it done or you'll follow me to a safer/better spot.

    Also goes the other way, when I'm unhooked and I crouch for heals, and the guy just runs off, despite it being safe. Then I get into another chase and b/c no heal, I go down on 1st hit instead of being able to prolong it even more.. Bad feeling.

  • HellDescent
    HellDescent Member Posts: 4,883

    If I wanna be healed by the person who's on the gen I'll be t-bagging until that gen is done.

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    I’m divided on that one. Recently that same thing happened to me, I allowed the person to heal me, they screwed up the skill check, the killer noticed, and I wound up dead. It’s situational, so there are times when I absolutely do NOT trust others healing me.

  • tippy2k2
    tippy2k2 Member Posts: 5,206

    What I do is I get the gen to about 95% and then stop to heal them

    If the killer comes, you can pop it off quickly and run like hell. If the killer doesn't come, you can give them the heal before the big neon "WE'RE OVER HERE!!!!" firework pops off.

    I'd say I wait to 99% on the gen but since I'm solo, I can't/don't expect the wounded survivor to realize my plan so I have the 5% buffer so they can stop before it finishes. If they choose to finish it instead and risk it, I'm fine with that too but I want to give the hurt guy the option.

  • Mister_Holdout
    Mister_Holdout Member Posts: 3,144

    Healing etiquette goes out the window if I have healing challenges.

  • Mikeasaurus
    Mikeasaurus Member Posts: 2,327

    I only heal a survivors if they remain under the hook crouched. That's usually a sign of 'Heal me please' so I oblige. When you see me doing a Gen, and the killer is clearly chasing someone else, please for the love of god, just get on the damn gen and help finish it, THEN we'll see to your healing. I swear, I've had so many survivors having some kind of seizure because the gen was almost done and I didn't take the 16 seconds to touch them because they magically forget that Ruin is still up and that 16 seconds of regression is a pain to get back. And if I see you Self-Care yourself once when I offer to help, you can be damn sure you're finishing what you started.

  • TheClownIsKing
    TheClownIsKing Member Posts: 6,278

    That’s fair.

    Unless HL or Unnerving is at play, I get super pissed off and flabbergasted whenever someone fails a healing skill check on me.

    They’re freaking huge. How?! HOW DID THEY SCREW THAT UP?!?!

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    Definitely not. Helping a person like that who is so self serving that they demand that you stop fixing a nearly completed gen to heal them probably wouldn’t return the favor if the tables were turned. Or at least I wouldn’t trust them to. An attitude like that means they’re likely destined to die or worse get you killed.

  • notstarboard
    notstarboard Member Posts: 3,903

    If the other teammate is already there, it's probably better to let them heal you. Think about another situation where the killer shows up 3/4 through your Self Care when you would have been healed and on your way if you had just let your teammate heal you. The occasionally missed healing skill check is unfortunate, but at least with another person there they can take a hit. If you're solo and miss the skill check with the killer nearby, you're just going down.

  • GamerGirlFeng
    GamerGirlFeng Member Posts: 277

    IMO getting off a gen to heal is better than finishing it first. Once it pops, killers tend to go towards them because DUH someone is over there. Then there's an injured survivor being an easy target.

    If a survivor won't get off the gen to help, then I move on to someone else who will and end up making them a last priority when they need help in return.

  • Nothing more annoying than having we'll make it in a public game; and a survivor runs away 15 feet to start to SELF CARE though.

  • StibbityStabbity
    StibbityStabbity Member Posts: 1,839

    Don't body block the person you are healing. Make sure they can get up and run before you lock them in place.

  • Volfawott
    Volfawott Member Posts: 3,893

    If I'm cleansing a totem and you want healing stop bouncing up and down like an inpatient child and wait a couple of seconds then I can deal with you if you're going to continuously to annoy the hell out of me then go find someone else or a medkit because I'm not healing you.


    Also if I have we'll make it and the killer is across the map when I unhook you please don't run off into a corner to get healed because I'm just going to leave you to your own business and I'm not going to chase you for it.

  • Volfawott
    Volfawott Member Posts: 3,893

    Objective wise you're wasting more time then you save.


    Relatively speaking you're having two people currently not working on objectives at that stage you might as well just have that person self-care by you. The use of a comparatively the same amount of wasted time. ( granted this is without modifiers for example healing perks or special medkits)

  • Chchchcheryl
    Chchchcheryl Member Posts: 1,531

    I keep running into people who run WMI, and they'll follow me for up to about a minute tea bagging and flashy clicking because they wanna heal me, and forcing the interaction whenever it pops up

    I dont ignore to be toxic, but the most common build I run is based around being injured, resilience and spine chill and dead hard and adrenaline, when I'm running this I'll only ever heal up if Its a dire situation and we need to do a clutch hook save, that cant be done whilst injured

    But this wastes so much time and I think enforces bad habits, because they feel that its OBLIGATORY to heal, the amount of times I've been trapped on something and been knocked down whilst the other person refused to leave the heal animation.

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    Do they, though? Maybe if they’re nearby and don’t have any other leads. Otherwise if I’m the killer I’ll go defend nearby gens rather than go to one that is already a lost cause and the survivors presumably have already run away. There are few safer spots to heal than by gens that are already finished.

    And if you’d rather run away to fond someone else to heal than you are to fix the gen then it tells me that you have zero long term plan for survival. You’re sure not going to escape with that behavior unless it is through the hatch.

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    That same thing has happened to me and one of the reasons why I posted this thread. A person pestered me for like an entire minute and kept trying to heal me while I was running resilience and wouldn’t take the hint even though I kept breaking away from her heal and literally pointing to tell her to go away. Stupid people!!

  • EvanSnowWolf
    EvanSnowWolf Member Posts: 1,583

    I tend to 99 the gen, then do the heal, then finish off the gen so we can both scatter and bolt.

  • Chchchcheryl
    Chchchcheryl Member Posts: 1,531

    I've noticed if you spam point they cant do it, that usually works for me!

  • Igbylucy
    Igbylucy Member Posts: 47


    If someone ignores me if I need a heal, then they don’t get unhooked if needed. Eye for an eye. Now I’ll help get the gen up first or run to a better location. But if it’s oblivious your ignoring me then pay back is a *****.

  • kaeru
    kaeru Member Posts: 1,568

    It's a good strategy if killer don't have Discordance. If he have, your injured teammate is screwed.

  • AetherBytes
    AetherBytes Member, Alpha Surveyor Posts: 3,061

    Some survivors want to heal you before a gen completes im case the killer investigates it. In the resilience case, let them heal you until 99% then hold shift to cancel the heal, work on the gen, and let them finish healing after it pops

  • AetherBytes
    AetherBytes Member, Alpha Surveyor Posts: 3,061

    Hold shift (or your run button), it makes other survivors unable to interact with you

  • bm33
    bm33 Member Posts: 8,269

    I hate when I'm running Resilience and other players keep trying to heal me. Have also had players try to heal me when someone is on struggle on other side of map. I'll keep breaking away and pointing at hook until finally I just start running to the hook injured to save the person myself.

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    It doesn’t matter what they want despite their good intentions, and that’s why healing etiquette needs to be taught. If a person doesn’t want to be healed then they should respect that because since we can’t verbally explain in game why not, they simply need to trust that they know what they’re doing. It’s their health, their judgment call. They know their own perks and abilities better than you do. If you’re worrying about their health more than they are, then stop. There’s a good reason for why they’re choosing not to heal.

  • Komodo16
    Komodo16 Member Posts: 1,488

    Not gonna lie I feel like when I play solo im usually injured most the match Tbh. 70 percent of my games

  • Ivaldi
    Ivaldi Member Posts: 977

    Comes down to a few things...

    1) If you unhook someone and the killer is not around - Wait 2 seconds to see if the survivor runs off; if they don't, then heal them.

    2) If you're working on a gen and an injured survivor comes to you; see where your gen progression is. 3+ gens remaining? DO THE GEN. 2 or less gens remaining? HEAL THE SURVIVOR

    3) If a survivor is self-healing with a medkit, do not stop them so you can heal instead. They self-heal at the same speed as you would, thus making it a waste.

    4) Don't bring self-care, use Inner Strength or any sort of medkit instead (Bonus points for bringing Botany)

  • CountVampyr
    CountVampyr Member Posts: 1,050

    Re: #2. I don’t know. A lot of times those last two gens are a real hassle to complete. I’m going to really resent having to stop repairing to heal the person, especially if it means that time wasted healing could have been the difference between a fixed gen and not. If they can’t risk another hook they should probably not be hanging out in a high risk target area. If you’re there then you’re volunteering to be the bait. Because if at this late stage in the game if ruin or pgtw is in play I’m not stopping that repair for anybody. If it’s above 95% and I know the killer is coming I will still usually complete it even if it means going up on the hook. If it’s my last hook only then will I bail.

  • GamerGirlFeng
    GamerGirlFeng Member Posts: 277

    Yes, they do, which is why I stopped allowing myself to get healed after the gen pops.

    Killers go to popped gens just as often as they go back to unhook, which is very common. They go to where they know someone is. Especially with perks like Tinkerer being run almost always. With that you likely won't finish the gen before the killer shows up anyway, even with two people on it.