We need to look at both sides

Maybe

Change Eruption to a perk that:

Locks all generators for 30 seconds and inflicts incapacitation for 20 seconds when the obsession is unhooked. When the obsession is unhooked, the survivor that committed the act, becomes the obsession. Eruption will only trigger if the killer is 24+Meters from the hook with the obsession on it.

The goal being to reduce camping and tunneling via incentive.

Change potential energy to:

Remove the start time hold, make the storage to output ratio 1:1, place a timer on the icon so that any potential energy stored can't be released for 45 seconds from when storage started. Display the flashing blue circular icon on the survivor's back when they move potential energy around. Stacks are lost in increments of 5 when hit/downed/hooked. 20 stacks max storage.

The goal being to make it easier to approach 3 gen situations.

For killers the Eruption change should slow down gen rushing. I'm saying this because its very few SWF teams that want in and out with max efficiency, but it does still allow them to do that by leaving one person on the hook.

Just some ideas.

The things killers do that survivors hate are a result of poor balance in the game. They need to make going for hooks much more achievable and rewarding in the time window they have than it currently is. IE camping/tunneling is the symptom, the sickness itself is poor game balance. As they make hooks more achievable and rewarding they can in turn make camping/tunneling harder.

Players in games want to feel like they have agency, something this game lacks a lot of.

At very high MMR there are many games as killer where you lost and there was nothing you could have done to change that outcome outside of tunneling someone out. IE you could play a perfect game and still lose. That feels bad for the player.

Survivors actually have tons of agency themselves, but where they lose their agency is when other survivors cost them the game. However this loss of agency is basically eliminated when you bring SWF into the mix.

You can mostly distill the frustrations for both sides down to this: The strongest things feel cheap. There's not much counter to the strongest things unless you yourself have the strongest things or completely outclass the opponent. The power difference between the best loadout and an average loadout is way too much. There's zero consistency in the power level of your opponent's loadouts or competitive level, which means you can often win or lose from the loadout screen.

OOOORRR they reduce the rng to not be so impactful. Coal tower can be a really balanced map, but 5 long walls vs 2 lt walls and 3 4-lanes makes all the difference in the world. BHVR really just needs to get over their old game design philosophy. I'm not saying remove rng, just make it less game deciding.

"Oh I got a long-wall into best filler pallet into shack window" and you know the game's over vs majority of killers if they commit. Likewise you see 4 new trash tiles on auto haven after spawning in and you know the games over as killer. Cowshed vs Shelter woods ect. The maximums and minimums need to be squished in this game period.