Why do i get treated badly for not slugging for the 4k?

You can’t expect anyone else to return your good sportsmanship. Just don’t give hatch from now on and you don’t have to worry about this anymore.

Yeah lot of players are very bad at considering the thought process of the opposite side and just assume they'rebeing toxic. Most survivors usually get salty at the end of hatch games because they got beat and reckon the killer wasn't playing "fair". BM ing is so common from survs when they know they can survive.

I'll usually make it clear I'm releasing them by either downing someone then carrying them to hatch (if they don't abandon) or making it clear beforehand that I'm friendly. If I'm outplayed without having the opportunity to do this I just don't bother going to gates, I'll just wander round looking for pallets and doors to break for a few more BP while the survs sit and wait for the end of the world at the gates. Weirdly enough when I'm playing for a 4k I don't many survs camping the hatch, they take it as soon as they see it lol.

We're playing a game of cat and mouse. Think about Tom and Jerry. Jerry is always cheeky and teases Tom when he gets away. Survivors feel empowered when they stand at the gate and get to teabag and point. They don't know you , they just know that moments ago you were hunting them and trying to kill them. So it's not personal or anything. Honestly, its part of the game and people should just accept it or ignore it. Hitting on hook, teabagging, clicking, w and sing, nodding, pointing. They're all similes of each other and so far from anything that could be considered actually toxic.

I commend you for being chill and letting people escape or at least giving them the chance but most of the time you can't communicate that. If they get hatch, they're going to consider it outplaying you and might give you the bags or say ggez at the end of the game. You'll be ok. We all will brother.

If you're on PC, hit them with a solid GG at the end and tell them GLN and move on. This stuff isn't worth dwelling on long and you will just start to resent and hate this game.

Best mentality.

The limited communication ingame means your best intentions may be read poorly.

And, if you are feeling a little disgruntled over the BM, saying "GG" and moving on is communicating to the instigator that you are so unbothered by them you're going to close out the game like any other and move onto your next without thinking about them, without having to prove to them that you're not mad.

Do this enough, and survivor BM will literally stop affecting you at all.

This just reminds me of one of the last interactions I had in the recent 2v8. I was playing survivor and looped one of the killer Mastermind for a while and did do quite decent looping. Several times stood still behind loops to look at what the killer was going to do. Did no emoting or moving my head other than looking at him. Well he eventually downs me behind a pallet he breaks it and does two humping movements on me. I was like did he get annoyed? I asked in the end game chat as the match ended little bit after that if I got under his skin or something. The killer claimed he did it because I taunted him. I was like sorry if you thought so maybe I fat fingered the key but I did not emote on my own opinion. I was only standing still looking at him because I was looking what he is going to do like does he break the pallet, goes left or right so I know how I would play it. He apologized of humping me as he misread the situation. Said np and gl nx and so did he.

I just thought to share this as it just shows people are not all doing things to annoy someone and people quite often read other persons actions as something they are not. For example some people stay on the door to do t-bag's genuinely thinking they are telling the killer "gg" or they want to give the hit for the killer for same reason. Still these are rare but not all do these things to be annoying they just are clueless of how it usually is perceived.

Because they think they actually did something. They don't bother to think about anyone but themselves nor evaluate the killers language in the game. Most players have zero skill or personality these days on both sides of the fog. It's sad but true.