The cards in our hands..

Hey everyone, I've been reading posts here for a while and decided to post myself. If I am playing with my son, we will play as survivors, but after hours I mostly play killer.
I have notice a lot of ups and downs, complaints and otherwise from both side (killer, survivor). And a lot of it doesn't make sense to me. Let me clarify.
Swf, I'm not sure what the letters stand for but I'm sure that that means the most, if not all the survivers are on mics together, build around each other's perks. Now I mostly see that killers hate this, I for one absolutely love it. Why? 50 games from now, am I a better killer playing against these groups, or against pure solo groups? I personally love when I do my best and all 4 survivers escape. That means I need to change the way I play, because I can't count on anyone else changing the way they play.
I see a lot of comments on pallet looping, mostly negative, but again I love this, why? Because going into a match I can count on it happening. It will, all I need to is fake a run around and come back to break the pallet, most of the time the people I chase are halfway through their run around and get back to the pallet as I'm breaking it leaving them not so far away. I also love the add ons to the doctor and the nightmare to create fake pallets. Love seeing survs running toward my fakes. If I were to change a perk for this, I'd change the spirits, the one where after being stunned by the pallet a few times it breaks the next one. I'd make it always break the pallets that stun you, but add extra stun time also.
Camping as the killer, won't do it. Can't do it. If I hook someone then that usually means 1-2 other survivors are going to try to rescue them. I run from the hook pretty quickly.
When we set up our builds, those would be the cards in our hands. Use them well, you know what they are, and you know what most survivers cards probably are.
If I think the survivers will be rushing gens I'll grab discordance, ruin, survelience, and thrill of the hunt. Discordance shows me where multiple survs are, ruin makes me not have to damage gens, survelience shows gens that are regressing after ruin activates and thrill of the hunt keeps me chasing my hez cleansers. Gotta do what you gotta do.