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In Regards to Negativity in the Community

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  • CashelP14
    CashelP14 Member Posts: 5,564

    As the saying goes "Treat others the way you want to be treated".

    Personally I think people just have to take things less seriously. Words mean nothing on online games.

  • megswifey
    megswifey Member Posts: 830

    Yeah, I'm cool with being called a cuss word, but it's when it has to do with my identity that I feel personally ashamed and upset. I like to be lowkey and just have fun, but I won't excuse racism, homophobia, and other slurs of the like.

  • CashelP14
    CashelP14 Member Posts: 5,564
  • LuffyBlack
    LuffyBlack Member Posts: 595

    They allow you guys to post on the internet from the containment cells? :P

  • finitethrills
    finitethrills Member Posts: 617

    I'm a dinosaur. I was here for the dawn of online pvp. While there's always been trolls, and at the risk of coming across as boomer, this is definitely a more modern thing. The old pvp crowd in the days of shadowbane, Ultima online, etc... They would do a lot of trash talking on the forums, they would go online and try their damndest to burn each other's cities to the ground, and then they'd go back on the forums to gloat a bit about it. 9 times out of 10, they'd also be in their opponents' TeamSpeak or private forums congratulating them on a hard fought battle, talking about what caught them by surprise, and how much fun they had, at the same time they were writing trash talking forum posts.

    The crap we have today is a mix of bitter care bears upset at getting beat in a pvp game that 100% advertises itself as pvp, and petty, small-minded folks who cannot get off unless they are literally making someone miserable. The stuff you see thrown around in multi-player games today would've had you kicked out of your own gaming group in the early days, even the ones who nolifed pvp to the point of utterly eliminating all competition on their servers. Personal attacks were largely no-go, unless someone was just a flagrant ahole in public constantly.

    Gaming has changed a lot over the last few decades, a lot of it for the better. Gamers have also changed a lot in the last few decades, and a lot of it for the worse.

  • kaeru
    kaeru Member Posts: 1,568

    Where did you get that white heart emoji? 👁️👄👁️

  • gibblywibblywoo
    gibblywibblywoo Member Posts: 3,772

    This

    Chances are 90% of those games where you get tunneled and ebony mori'd two minutes in were because the killer had a really tilting game or trolling SWF last game and is taking out some rage on other players who did no wrong.

    Who in turn bring a BNP or Instaheal and DS/Unbreakable next game because they're sick of this happening.

    Heck, I used to do this myself until I saw a video about it and realised how dumb it is.

    I still play to win but I don't go out of my way to ruin someones experience (even if it feels like some survivors are getting off doing it to me sometimes). My golden rule is that as long as the player hasn't sandbagged teammates/farmed teammates/ or done something blatantly trying to troll me I'll never hook them twice in a row.

  • OldHunterLight
    OldHunterLight Member Posts: 3,001
    edited November 2020

    I joined the forums to have decent arguments but most people here don't want to actually have arguments for the most part is "I can't be wrong so you are wrong".

    I can name about 8 guys/gals in here who actually have great arguments and have opened my eyes in certain ways.

    Also it seems that people forget a few things you mentioned, 1. There is someone behind the monitor and 2. A simple thing that every human should have which is empathy.

    I guess the way we were raised it was different, this is probably unrelated but I'm 24, I started smoking when I was 15 when my mom found out that I smoke she well did what most moms would do which was slap me and made me eat a cig (no joke and I don't hate her nor hold grudges) but after seeing a coworker how they treat his son (his son smokes) he told me that when he was a kid, adults weren't supposed to see kids smoking and kids talked to adults as if they were friends they could and would either slap you or scold you.

    It was an unrelated story but most of the time you can see that not to be offensive but some people really had a very bad childhood or parents that didn't cared for them enough to teach them the basics of empathy and stuff like that.

  • LuffyBlack
    LuffyBlack Member Posts: 595

    That's interesting. It isn't often I meet others with personality disorders only for me it's different. I have borderline personality disorder. Definitely stigmatized with movies like Fatal Attraction or the yandere archetype in anime 🤣That crap is only half true. 🔪

    Not being wired like others definitely tends to suck.

  • noctis129
    noctis129 Member Posts: 967

    The truth is, dbd isn't the game w the most toxic community.


    Raging gamers are everywhere.


    It just so happens that this game has a lot of entitled ppl who believe they deserved something and confusing killing and being nice.

  • MadLordJack
    MadLordJack Member Posts: 8,814

    Yeah. But it's got it's perks, or at least for me it does. Helps that I remember being relatively normal, if that term even exists. Maybe it's why I like to be kind even if I don't get the twisted gut feeling when I'm not.

  • itsaconehead
    itsaconehead Member Posts: 236

    Nah, me and you share the same views here. I mean sure, I got the whole "girls don't play video games!" When I was a kid, but it wasn't like it is now. I was a kid when Halo got popular and even then people laughed with each other over losing. Now, my fiancée can't play the likes of COD without some 12 year old screaming that he beat a girl in a game.

  • Jyn_Mojito
    Jyn_Mojito Member Posts: 515

    Lmao, it pains me to say I'm not up to speed on my emoji speak, so I had to Google what a white heart means 🤣

    You are a sweetheart and I learned something new today 💛

  • megswifey
    megswifey Member Posts: 830

    I don't mean to intervene here, but I am super emotional and sensitive to everything. Just last night I cried over an oreo commercial because a stuffed animal wanted to eat oreos and I couldn't handle it lol! I developed it through severe anxiety and get embarrassed sometimes, but I have been told by my friends that I have developed a sixth sense for when they need help or are upset. Also, the way you described the twisted gut feeling is kinda cool, I usually get butterflies or blush a lot from joy!

  • MadLordJack
    MadLordJack Member Posts: 8,814

    Well, that explains why you're always so nice to interact with