Giving hatch and survivor proceeds to complain at the end of the game
I love giving hatch because I feel like being nice sometimes, and you know I understand why people rarely give survivors hatch, because no matter what you will do for them they will still talk like you are the lowest of the low. After I finished a round this nea complains to me about how boring the round was, and how my playstyle is garbage, because I never left a part of the map. I was on badham, and I stuck close to a 3 gen where everyone was at. It's like you can never please survivors 99% of the time. You can have a 12 hook game, and then get called names. I rarely ever see toxic behavior from killer whenever I play survivor. Yea I mean sometimes they will tunnel or whatever, but sometimes it's what you gotta do in order to get on a winning track. I don't take the game serious at all, and I play the least sweaty possible. Off meta builds, and pretty much go for 12 hook games only. I do win at least 95% of my matches, but the community wears you out quick. It's like no matter what you do somebody doesn't like it. Honestly out all of the years I've been playing video games. I without a doubt can officially say dbd has the most toxic player base I have ever seen, and I've been there for the old xbox days like old call of duty and stuff. People were super toxic, but they weren't as bad as I have seen in dbd. Hearing people complain because of their own misplays, and their own mistakes and putting it on the killer instead, because they aren't nearly as good as they think they are. Survivors precede to wonder why their que times are extremely high. That experience really showed me that no matter how nice you are on this game you still get hate for it.
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I will not say that toxicity and entitled player do not exist in this game but most survivors is nice when you play fair and especially if you give them the hatch or let them open door when you had closed it. No one of my friends (irl/ol) play this game and the few DBD players i got in my stream friend list is survivors who add me after a game.
Tonight I played 5 games and in 2 of them, last survivor do an OG moove I've not seen in ages, when they saw they had no chance to escape, they drop their items in front of me xD Usually, I give hatch only to the one that was obvioulsy new player/mismatched, but tonight this was good players and I wouldn't have let them escape but this moove remember me old time when survivors didn't tbag at each pallet (and its mostly boosted/low skill player cause good one/OG never do it or once to try to aggro).
And look end game chat
This was 3 red rank and 1 green, its the lvl1 who did the gift when i catched him while the 3rd hooked was on his second stage, I looked for the hatch with him^^
In this one, it was 2 red rank, a purple and a yellow, the rank 13 was good (2nd in point and pretty good loop, I couldn't have guessed he was yellow) but its one of the red who did the gift when i catch him at door after closing the hatch.
So you see, this game have his good moments too.
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If you are giving hatch just to satisfy someone you are doing it very wrong. It's impossible to satisfy some people, you should give hatch to people you think deserve to escape. I give it to people who I had funny moments with in a match or who I think was trashed by the matchmaking. I don't care what they think about it afterwards, I don't do it to satisfy them, I do it because I believe that's what they deserve or that's what I want for them.
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My first mach today was against a Pyramid Head on the game map. He chased me for a while, downed me but didn't pick me up. He placed like a dozen of rites around me, standing next to me, shaking his head. I figured he had the cage daily, so I thought I would be nice and give him his daily. Someone picked me up and I stepped into his rites then crouched infront of the killer. He caged me, I got freed, killer is right back on me. I think "K, fine, I will give u another one". I step into the trail again, he cages me, follows the person who comes to free me and then as soon as my feet touched the ground, proceed to chase me again, downs me and this time hooks me.
In endgame chat he boasted about it and I just told him it was a ######### move from him but then it was my own fault for being nice. I am just glad I was the only kill he got.
Still I would do it again if I see the killer is trying to do a challange or a daily and is struggling with it since they usually won't act like c*nts.
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Some people just like to complain or be toxic no matter how the match goes. They die and it's because you are a tunnelling camping trash killer even if you didn't do either of these things. They win and it's gg ez baby killer so best thing is to just say gg to these people and move on because they mostly only do it just to bait you into giving them a reaction. Although I do love when the survivors 3 gen themselves and then keep making loud noises on the other side of the map or get hit and then run to the opposite side of the map and get mad because you don't leave the 3 gen that they created themselves.
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I remember giving hatch to a kate on midwich. She then proceeded to call me a dumb--- because she was trying to heal to get more points.
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I occasionally give hatch to a good player if they weren't tbagging every pallet. Usually it's appreciated but sometimes not. It usually takes quite a few games after that "not" before I play nice.
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Sometimes if the 3rd survivor is dying on hook, I'll go to the corner of the map and wait. Once they die, I will race to find the hatch before the 4th survivor finds it.
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How about just stop looking for validation or appreciation and just play the game. Take nothing personal. Kill them all or give hatch, but close end game chat and goto next.
Literally just stop taking it to your emotions and literally understand you're all playing a videogame. What they say or don't say has no merit.
And to add, by far the LEAST toxic game I ever played lol. (Counterstrike, rainbow six, league of legends, cod4, etc)
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I'm a survivor and they never stop flaming. They even flame each other. I block them. All of them. I'm not playing to be target of them having a bad day.
They are just angry. I will never understand why. This flaming is completly destroying the game. Exspecially for killers. If you play good you're a tunnler if you play bad you're a noob.
To camp three gens is absolutely legitimate. It's their fault if they do all gens in the same region.
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People are quite colorful on this game it seems like they can't even appreciate what's given to them, and instead proceed to be ungrateful about it. It makes you think about how they are like in real life to be honest.
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I've had a lot of times where survivors flame each other, but it's like they much would rather flame the killer instead, because they just aren't very good at the game I.E compared to the killer or their skill level is still low. Which is the majority of players, so they would rather resolve the problem by blaming their team or the killer.
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I don't look for validation or anything. I just try to be nice, but it seems like it will backfire in this community, because people can't appreciate anything, but instead complain because of their mistakes. Instead of fixing their mistakes, they much would rather pin point the problem on someone else rather then themselves. I don't know I've played games way more longer than dbd I have 1300 hours in, but the old cod days most of the toxicity was banter and fun, and a lot of the older games before companies started cracking down on toxicity and actually banning people for it. DBD it's legitimate toxicity over people just messing around. I think I've been called every name in the book on this game, and told to jump off a cliff etc... You get the idea, but it's legitimate over banter. I think that's a serious problem. It doesn't hurt my feelings at all, but at the same time it's just like why do it.
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I got blasted in post-game chat because I hit and hooked an AFK survivor. AN AFK SURVIVOR!!! So some people you just can't make happy.
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The killers even get paranoid. I know this is depressing so i decided to write a killer that he did a good game. He said: "i wasn't tunneling you guys just weren't that good". Damn, i was just trying to give some good vibes instead.
He let me go after hook and decided to hunt an other one. How would i come to calling him a tunnler?
The survivors could mind teamplay instead. For example if a killer is tunneling it's most time the survivors fault. They do a rescue if you just turned your back. Sad for the hooked one because he's dying instead of the one who grabbed it. (Btw. If you hunt the other one instead and they escape you are a noob. That was the moment i started tunneling as killer.)
A real problem is how the hits are dealed. sometimes i get hits which are really out of this world :D and i know killers think the same. It's too easy for them. They should make times on gen longer instead. It's maybe harder to escape but for me it's not escaping i want to have fun during a hunt.
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It's most likely because of the fact that killers get called tunnelers all the time even if they aren't tunneling. That's the problem so killers automatically assume the person is being sarcastic because of the amount of toxicity killers get whenever they play the game, but there are nice survivors. It just seems like how often survivors leave a sour taste in the killer players mouth about the rampant amount of toxicity that is never dealt with. I do agree most of the time the tunneling is the survivors fault, but there are times where it's a hardcore tunnel which results in the round being lost for the killer.
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I usually leave the afk people alone, but most of the time they don't even come back so I don't understand the point of not hooking them.
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Yes but the problem is they never write the killer :D or other players.
But even if the killer is hardcore tunneling the other ones can take hits and block him. Or fake a scratch mark.
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Again. What i said exactly, stop looking for appreciation. Why are you even concerned with being "nice" and others acknowledging or accepting it? Call of Duty toxicoty was certainly not banter and fun in the higher tier lobbies (speaking call of dity mw2/4 era) but I can not speak on any of the newer ones.
All the things you are describing (violent toxicity which is rare to ever be more than empty words to trigger you)... is far more prominent in other games because of voice comms or access to other ways to reach put to you. DBD i pretty tame with one liners or sentences meant to bait you into being upset.
It's not that you being nice is backfiring, it's that no one asked you for it. How people play the game with you is generally how they play with thousands of other killers and absolutely not specific to you. You seem genuine but I implore you to not except it in return from others because that's just not the way they want to behave. Just adapt how you react internally.
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There's always going to be people like that. The question is are you going to join them?
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Never gonna join that club, because I enjoy proper sportsmanship regardless if it's a video game or not. Just wish the community wasn't as bad as it is. I'm not sure why people like sucking the fun of the game for other players though. Bad words or toxicity doesn't bother me, but I'm sure it does to some other people, and that's what sucks.
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I've had a lot of Killers give me hatch and let me open the gates and leave. It actually happened earlier - this nice Wraith let me open the gate and leave. I thought for sure he was going to hook me and even if he did, it was still a fun match.
I always say thank you and it makes me sad when I go to say thank you and they're on console and can't see my comment...I just hope they know that I am thankful. I never know what to do to say thanks in game...I usually spin in a circle a few times because I worry if I crouch a few times, they'll think I'm teabagging them xD;
Like people have said - you just can't please everyone. I've lived with someone who if you gave them a million dollars, they'd complain you didn't give them a dollar more. I think nice Killers are amazing and I for one am always happy to be given hatch or allowed to open the gate and am eternally grateful :3
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when people lose dont expect all of them to say gg especially when u played in a very scummy way, is normal. since this is not a competitive game people who are sweating really hard to the point they should take a shower after are not well seen, killers and survivors.
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