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Why is every survivor so toxic now a days

Like I haven’t played a killer match in ages where every survivor didn’t relentlessly attempt to bully me, flashlight click, tea bag whenever they do anything, finish gens in my face, follow me everywhere I go to force a tunnel, and just sit at exit gate til EGC happens. Like I haven’t had a non toxic match in probably months. I’d say since March.

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  • Katie_met
    Katie_met Member Posts: 422
    edited September 2021

    It's easy to be toxic as survivor. All you have to do is just press a button over and over. It's why I only play survivor really because I can't stand playing killer for that reason.

    But remember that killers can also be toxic, and toxicity will come from both sides, it's just likely more common as survivor since it's easier.

    If you can look past it then do that, but if it gets to you then just play survivor and be glad you don't contribute to the toxicity.

  • xenotimebong
    xenotimebong Member Posts: 2,803

    They aren’t. I faced a really sweet 4 man earlier today who were fine in game and wholesome in chat so they definitely do exist. In fact in all my matches today I don’t think I faced a single toxic survivor.

  • Grimzy
    Grimzy Member Posts: 219

    This post just means they achieved what they wanted. I mean, its the internet, just grow a thinkc skin and dont let it bother you.

  • kate_best_girl
    kate_best_girl Member Posts: 2,184

    I’ve always hated this argument lol. I have thick skin just because I don’t like people being toxic 24/7 and not being allowed to play killers I enjoy doesn’t mean I don’t have thick skin.

  • R2k
    R2k Member Posts: 1,069

    I guess it depends on luck. I mostly get players that either gg me or keep quiet. So can't say everyone is toxic.

  • phenomenal256
    phenomenal256 Member Posts: 5

    Like I am new to the game and I don't even want to play because of the toxic survivors. The killers i've played against have been chill

  • pseudechis
    pseudechis Member Posts: 3,904

    I wouldn't say that behaviour is toxic, but its not thematic.

    Whe survivors are so cocky that they just get in your face all game because in most scenarios you have been poorly matched and can't catch them anyway it really kills the feel of the game.

    Nothing worse than a weak antagonist.

  • boogerboy123
    boogerboy123 Member Posts: 119

    i just had a match where i didnt camp at egc good enough and they still bagged me OMEGALUL

  • Warcrafter4
    Warcrafter4 Member Posts: 2,917

    Mob mentality:

    Its very easy to act horrendously against someone when you know you have people who will back you up that and that outnumber the people your acting horrendously towards.

    Aka because survivors don't back up the killer post game is encourages other survivors to attack the killer post game and be toxic mid game because they know there will be no consequences from their peers.

  • justbecause
    justbecause Member Posts: 1,521

    Butt dance, click click is what offends you? Grow thicker skin I'd say if u wanna enjoy this game

  • BigChapAlien21
    BigChapAlien21 Member Posts: 250
    edited September 2021

    1.) Bullies like to be in groups with other bullies. So Survivor is the more attractive role for people looking to be rude to others.


    2.) DBD can be very frustrating between bugs and the very high skill ceiling, and players can become miserable. "Misery loves company" as the saying goes, so them making you miserable makes them feel a little less miserable.


    Can't remember the last time I got a "gg" back. They're usually silent or insulting me in post game chat. Guess that's the Internet for you.

  • Squirrel_Thicc
    Squirrel_Thicc Member Posts: 2,677

    Both sides have been extremely toxic since sbmm for some reason.

  • baseballfan4877
    baseballfan4877 Member Posts: 364
    edited September 2021

    I mean i'd be high after having 4 minute games where I looped the killer the whole time. Ego trip. The devs allow it. What pitiful killers, they are trying to attack a GOD? Let me put them in their place by being toxic

  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165

    Oh please don't come with semantics. It's all a form of mental Provokation and therefore BM (aka bad manners).

    The killer ascertaining his "dominance" by nodding over a freshly downed survivor, rubbing in the helplessness of a hanging survivor by repeatedly hitting or survivor with their tbagging or flashlight clicking to show their superiority/feeling of safety against the meant to be threat/edge on a being they normally should lore wise be afraid of.

    It all shows a certain kind of mentality behind the controls and is taken mostly in a negative way. (Since gestures that have no clear distinction for their several maybe intended uses but are connected to something negative are most often taken as such.)

  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165
  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165

    That's the same kind of advice as if I would say, don't take getting camped,tunneled or slugged personally.

  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165

    Yeah mostly silence in my "friendly" killer rounds and the rare GG's here and there when I get completely destroyed with 1 or 2 hooks.

    Getting props for playing "fair" andor letting them go are even more rare.

  • MrCalac123
    MrCalac123 Member Posts: 1,147

    The rule of being a bully is to pick on those who can't do you any harm. SWF toxic bully squads go against chill Killers or people trying new Killers/or are simply new players in general, stomp them in game, and then act like they won Olympic gold.

    Their tune changes real f$%#in quick when the Killer stomps them in return, not so cool and confident anymore... what a bunch of chumps.

  • ThiccBudhha
    ThiccBudhha Member Posts: 6,987

    Who cast the first stone, was it the twerking strobe light, or the mountain climbing cyclops? The world may never know, but I blame survivors because at least a killer is supposed to be mean. We are just role-playing. Tee hee.

  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165

    Yeah I think it's the same problem as the question: what was there first, the full Perma breaking hooks savo squad or the 4 slug bleedout killer?

    (While i at least think that the former made the latter more prominent)

  • Barbarossa2020
    Barbarossa2020 Member Posts: 1,369

    I don't know if i say anything is "bullying" in my opinion, if some survs make a mess of me i just say its them trying to win.

    Just like when i curbstomp, No quarter given, none asked for. It's very very rarely i let anyone hatch.


    " To crush your enemies. See them driven before you. And to hear the lamentations of their women."

  • DbD_Enjoyer
    DbD_Enjoyer Member Posts: 459

    Maybe you can try to tunnel the first one to death and then slug the rest until everyone is out of unbreakable.

    On the chat you should drop one of these GEMS:

    • "GG" followed by "GG = Git Gud"

    OR

    • "GG EZ 4K BB SURVIVORS" if you actually killed everyone with that strategy.

    Proceed to harverst any SALT they decide to drop and move on to the next match... Keep doing that and hope survivors will someday reflect on what they are doing for themselves.

  • kate_best_girl
    kate_best_girl Member Posts: 2,184

    I’ve tried to be toxic back but then I just…feel so bad…like it’s not even in losing most of my matches it’s just that most of them are filled to the brink with toxic behavior from the survivor end. Like as nurse today I’ve lost about 1/14 games I played as her the rest I either 2-4k’d but in every single one of those matches 3/4 survivors would tea bag, click click, or straight up just follow me everywhere. I try to avoid survivors who are unhooked or I just hooked because I don’t like tunneling which is why I hate forced tunneling even more because I know I’m the one who gets flamed for it.

  • DieGräfin
    DieGräfin Member Posts: 227

    T-bagging, clicking with flashlight or body blocking is not even toxic. Maybe troll behavior but not toxic. I think some people don't even know what toxic is 😐

    Getting insulted in chat for example is toxic. if someone is attacking you personal. The list for this is also very long...

    Then you can say it is toxic.

  • ThiccBudhha
    ThiccBudhha Member Posts: 6,987

    You can tell it is a survivor main because they do not know the word "kill."


    Do not let those little psychos get you down. That is all they have, their frustrations. It is like a little 5 year old screaming into a pillow, fam. They just do not know any better. But the pillow just has to take it, because it is a pillow. Sad fate for the pillow, but you are better than that because you are not a pillow. This is the wisdom of the Bodhisattva.

  • Hektic3000
    Hektic3000 Member Posts: 674

    Because people claim that survivors cant do anything toxic and its just them playing the game.

  • Pulsar
    Pulsar Member Posts: 20,950
    edited September 2021

    Maybe, but I worry about people who are in a bad place mentally. I worry obsessively that these people are going to push someone over the edge.

  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165

    I guess you probably already know that but using u alive instead of kill in this circumstances is simply a way to circumvent the chat filter and dodge any form of automated chat based Ban system.

    It really amazing how much effort and creativity people put into this to be jerks in online Video Games.

  • ThiccBudhha
    ThiccBudhha Member Posts: 6,987

    I do too. My closest family member actually tried to end her life. It was a real wake up call for me and I am extremely lucky she warned me as others do not get that second chance. I used to make jokes about it, and looking back, I wonder what was wrong with me and how I could have ever found that funny, or had the attitude that people who struggle with those issues are just weak, mentally. It is really immature and I hope nobody actually has to experience that sensation. It does scare me a bit, thinking that people might have actually made that decision based on some apathetic loser that used their anonymity to lash out at someone in an extremely unhealthy way.


    People are strange...

  • danielmaster87
    danielmaster87 Member Posts: 9,746

    The survivors, when they've had an easy game via cracked gen speed, they feel unsatisfied because they didn't have to work for a thing. So they try to make themselves feel better by putting the killer down. They're the power role, so they're gonna milk it and bully the killer for kicks.

  • Pulsar
    Pulsar Member Posts: 20,950

    I am sorry that you and your family member have gone through that, but I am glad it turned out okay.

    It makes me angry honestly. I was in that state a few years ago and something like that easily could've pushed me into doing something rash. It angers me that people are so insecure and upset that they need to say such heinous things to feel better.

  • justbecause
    justbecause Member Posts: 1,521

    No worries I got my ds for that and I'm playing with my friends you know with ppl that aren't bots and doesn't have brain damage so for me camping and tunneling is flattering because I waste so much killers time that they drop whole match

  • burt0r
    burt0r Member Posts: 4,165

    Well that's good for you then. (No sarcasm or cynism)

    I am still hesitant to play solo survivor for the first time since I have low self esteem and am afraid to be one of the brain dead teammates to others.

    Not a real healthy mind set if it has so much control over me, I know, but at least i feel some responsibility in every aspect of my life instead of giving no crap like some other special individuals once the person becomes anonymous and unpunishable.

  • The_Krapper
    The_Krapper Member Posts: 3,259

    I'll come with it all day , it's a game and all these people are here for fun it literally doesn't affect you what happens in game unless you're one of those egotistical players who thinks they're the best ever and gets all up in their feelings over some pixels humping the ground which is pathetic, the way people get offended and can't brush off a loss or any of what you listed in the first post is whats wrong with this game everyone is soft and cries their eyes out over everything, I'm out here for fun there are plenty of times I've made friends with people Ive done that to and who have done it to me because what happens in game isnt a personal attack on your family that you have to rush to the forums to whine about

  • justbecause
    justbecause Member Posts: 1,521

    Solo queue is idk definitely do try it but often it's very frustrating and you feel like you don't have power in ur hands at all because no matter how good u are you're get killed by team just last night I got left to die on hook after running pinhead for 4 gens they were so altruistic to finish that last one that they forgot to save me and after all they all died idk how they managed that tbh

  • BadMrFrosty
    BadMrFrosty Member Posts: 1,100
    edited September 2021

    Poor map design, quick gen speeds, and incredibly powerful second chance perks give survivors incentive to bully, play recklessly, and treat the killer like a joke. Experienced survivors know they can get away with it because the developers are out of touch and blindly follow data across low and mid tier skill levels primarily, which means map RNG/parameters are designed with that experience in mind. As survivors get better at the game, the system goes from barely acceptable to absolutely broken, especially when tile linking and pallet conservation become the norm.

    For a decrease in survivor toxicity, you'd need to flip the roles. All killers would need to become powerful enough to compete with the best survivors, and while some people will always try and tilt their opposition by being obnoxious, a lot of people would suddenly become far less bold if they knew there was a huge risk of going down quickly. Knowing there's a loop nearby (or several of them linked together due to bad RNG) that guarantees complete safety emboldens the worst of the survivor player base to act the way they do.

  • kate_best_girl
    kate_best_girl Member Posts: 2,184

    You’re literally the person you described. You’re extremely egotistical and take offense that I said not to be toxic lol.

  • kate_best_girl
    kate_best_girl Member Posts: 2,184

    Yeah like I’ll still get a 2k at least but Jesus every match is toxic. Can’t recall when I just had a survivor leave through the gate instead of waiting til the timer hit 1%

  • PsychoTron
    PsychoTron Member Posts: 348

    have you guys seen otzdarva's latest streams? He would get the occasional tea bagger after dropping a pallet. which is pretty mild as far as BM is concerned. After the match, the survivor immediately apologizes for being toxic in-game but only because they versed against the biggest DBD streamer.

    Darva would get quite annoyed because if it was just a random no-name killer, they wouldn't have given them the same courtesy and he would call them out on it. So it's not like they DON'T have self awareness, they are fully aware they are trying to get under the skin of the killer during the game, and then at the exit gates to rub it in.

    They know they are toxic, but they just don't care; they only care if they went against otzdarva after the fact, with 10K people watching his stream.

  • Ramxenoc445
    Ramxenoc445 Member Posts: 1,358

    It goes hand in hand. It can start on either side. Killer can't deal with looping properly and gets tired of playing "nice" decides to play as scummy as they can. Those survivors get pissed and decide to be as toxic as they can and assume all killers will try and be as scummy as can be so they take that energy to every game they play. Potentially making that killer to decide to be scummy or whatever. Or the reverse where survivor loop hard and teabag and all that stuff killer gets scummy so on and so forth.

    The only real way I can think to stop all of it would be to start making things bannable offenses. Teabaggin killer, tunneling or camping. Just because they're seen as toxic playstyles, but then you have to define what is and isn't tunneling or camping and piss off players that love to use those tactics and hear their bitching about legit playstyles. This'll never happen so..toxic community it is

  • The_Krapper
    The_Krapper Member Posts: 3,259

    I don't take any offense to it you can insult all you want I don't mind a bit, I just don't consider the same stuff toxic

  • JustWhimsical
    JustWhimsical Member Posts: 590

    Sorry, that happened to you Pulsar you honestly don't deserve that nobody does. You are amazing and truly a great person to be around I may not know you, but honestly you just seem like a very likable person. So don't ever listen to them you are great. :)

  • Dr_Loomis
    Dr_Loomis Member Posts: 3,703

    Common nature of onlne PvP unfortunately. With the 1v4 concept, it's even worse.

    DBD has been a PS+ game etc and thus extended to a wider audience. Although that's not necessarily a reason in itself, the game has reached a wider variety of players, many well-versed in being toxic.

    More often than not, when you encounter one of these little toxic crapbags, on PS4 at least, their user profile has all the usual suspects, Fortnite, Warzone, Rocket League etc. Often accompanied by an anime avatar and obnoxious profile message. It's tedious really.

    Those hilarious 'content creators' streaming videos joyfully championing the process of annoying the killer until they disconnect don't help either. But who cares: start with "Whats happening guys?" and end with "like and subscribe!".

    The sheep watch the videos, learn all the tricks and cheap tactics etc...see how the "cool kids" act...and then have fun attempting to make others miserable by spoiling their experience.

    A tale as old as time.

  • The_Krapper
    The_Krapper Member Posts: 3,259

    Just because I explained my opinion on a gaming forum intended to put your opinion on doesn't mean I took offense think what you want it doesn't bother me a bit I could honestly care less what you think about me