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Well guess trying to be a good sport isn't a thing

jamally093
jamally093 Member Posts: 1,695

I was facing a ghost face who DCed since they weren't having a good match gens flying and very few hooks but I mean also it was Vecna's map. So I send them a gg because hey they played fair and tried. Their response was basically saying to shut it and so on even though all I said was GG. The number of times I've DCed and people said gg but seriously why not just ignore the message if your that upset or just say gg back.

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  • danielmaster87
    danielmaster87 Member Posts: 9,713

    I usually respond with BG, after a game like that. Don't need to go into specifics with them, but hopefully allude to the fact that I had no control in the match and got rolled, after not even playing bad. Before anyone starts, results do not equate to performance.

    A more appropriate GG would be when both sides had fun/experience. At least some back and forth, you know. Not 1 side getting destroyed the whole time. This is the only game of the genre where it's accepted as normal to let the 1 (in the 1v4) experience that. Predator, you can take pot shots at soldiers until they're weak enough to kill. Klowns, both sides are teams, so there could be a swing either way at any point. Friday (RIP soon), you can focus down the weak teammates and guard multiple objectives at the same time (relatively).

    So I don't knock people for saying GG. It just isn't a GG a lot of the time. And that goes for survivor matches as well, but that's another story.

  • steezo_de
    steezo_de Member Posts: 1,213

    It's usually up to the loser to say GG first. That's a sign of a good sport, especially if they're telling you that you played a good game. Innocent mistake you made, but in a day when saying GG can be considered a taunt, it's best just to leave it, because if they wanted to talk, they'd just go AFK and say something post-game. If they left upset, they probably don't want to talk about it either, at least not right away. But hey, you learn from it. Not everyone reacts the same as you.

  • Dreamnomad
    Dreamnomad Member Posts: 3,965

    I play anonymously on PS5. I'm not interested in hearing anyone's opinions on the game after it is over, good or bad. But if I were to be open to post game chat then I definitely wouldn't be in the mood for a GG after everyone involved knows it wasn't a good game. The polite thing to do is say nothing in that situation. Even if you honestly had the best of intentions (which I frankly doubt), anything you say could be misconstrued into rubbing salt into the wound.

  • smurf
    smurf Member Posts: 504

    How would people here take a 'glnm!' in that situation?

  • MrMori
    MrMori Member Posts: 1,691

    When there's nothing good to be said, nothing is the goodest you can say.

  • jamally093
    jamally093 Member Posts: 1,695

    I did have good intentions. I say gg because I had fun sure he DCed but it was fun facing him. I don't start basically mocking him and saying why DC because then it would be a bit hypocritical since I'm guilty of DCing.

  • Marc_go_solo
    Marc_go_solo Member Posts: 5,347
    edited November 8

    From their perspective, they had a crap game and wanted to move on. Sadly, they quit. They then get one of the survivors going "gg", which they may very well take as a mocking statement. "Gg" doesn't have any explanation to it - no emotional hints as to the meaning - and I believe some also use "gg" as short for "Git gud". Because it has nothing to clarify the motivation, and bearing in mind that the Killer had quit, I can see they may have taken this as a form of mockery.

    I fully believe that you meant it in good faith. It's just sometimes the room needs to be read better, and an understanding that letters are more a convenience to shorten phrases and save time, when words are far more important.

  • Laluzi
    Laluzi Member Posts: 6,226

    Oh, absolutely. Some people are just very upset and won't want to hear from the (perceived) aggressor no matter what, but you've got the right of it - praising them for some cool or funny thing they did during gameplay or thanking them for playing fair is the best way to reach out, depending on the situation. Even praising their cosmetics if there's really nothing else and the match was a shitshow from the start. Or apologizing, if your survivor teammates were BMing the killer while they lost. I've been on both sides of that equation and I can't understate how much that counted for me when I had a survivor reach out and express distaste for teammate BM, because during the match it always feels like you've got a unified force laughing at your expense.

    To be honest, I find that GG, even when used in the fairest possible light (you say it after you lost), is pretty cursory and stale. Even saying "Good game!" does far more to convey sincere meaning than "gg."

  • Xxjwaynexx
    Xxjwaynexx Member Posts: 345

    I mean so as a killer main literally 97% percent of the time, when I get steam rolled and they send a ggs I usually respond back ggs wp unless they were just unbearable you know. I can admit when I get outplayed or when I make too many mistakes. My issue is the sore winners, that come in and start talking trash. A simple ggs from a team that just cooked me isnt a trigger for me, they probably just came off a terrible game and played my match really well so it was in fact a good game. I have very few games where the win con was completely out of my reach.

  • jamally093
    jamally093 Member Posts: 1,695

    I don't know I don't want to sound like a 50 year old dad who's pulling a how do you do fellow kids move. But a lot has changed in dbd that I'm not used too. So me saying gg is just because a lot of other people have done it even if I had a garbage game and decide to pull the plug on it they say gg or gg wp. I don't know maybe I have to just not say it anymore. For the love of anything I faced a Chucky a while back who slugged people on the ground the entire match I mean gens weren't flying they just wanted to slug I guess. I said GG because I was wanting to show good sportsmanship and boom got banned from their twitch chat. I don't know maybe saying gg just shouldn't be a thing for me anymore knowing some people will think I'm saying "get good".

  • UndeddJester
    UndeddJester Member Posts: 3,497
    edited November 9

    To be fair, when tempers flare saying GG and meaning "Garbage Game" is probably a good self help trick xD

    "Yep, GG indeed" xD

  • Xxjwaynexx
    Xxjwaynexx Member Posts: 345

    Yeah I feel that I've been there, I literally gave someone a shout out in my live stream because they actually looped so well. Went to the stream to support them and tell them ggs and immediately banned. It's kind of crazy. I was born late 80's so this mindset of being mentally hurt by losing/winning in a video game is weird to me. After losing to Mike Tyson in punch out about million times it kind of humbles when it comes to games lol. Even if people arent being good sports and type gg I still perceive it as a ggs you know.

  • SuspiciousBrownie
    SuspiciousBrownie Member Posts: 266

    Exactly. If I get cooked and they say gg it feels like an insult only. But it’s through text so no intonation can be discernible, but it still seems that way

  • Tits
    Tits Member Posts: 378

    I usualy dont say anything at all until the opposing side says gg first. U never know how they are feeling after the round and implying it was a good game for you simply could be a taunt to them