Having opted out of cross play is my best choice ever (PS4 Pro red ranks London UK)
I gave cross play a good try, initially I was excited about the idea of version JRM, Ayrun and Otz on PC.
I stayed opted in for around a week, playing my usual 15/20 matches per day of DBD of which 10/15 as a survivor and 5 as a killer.
After the initial excitement, I started to realise how inadequate the PS4 pro is compared to a pc, I used to play on PC 18 months ago but I never realised how much of a difference it made until I have seen the two machines combined in the same match.
After my first week I have slowly started to ease out of cross play and now, after a few weeks, all my ps4 friends but one (we are around 30) opted out and I am restarting to find quick matches both as a survivor and killer.
This has been my experience, I won't ever go back unless the two platforms are made completely equal.
That's my feedback if someone is interested.
Regards and have a good day