This game has very serious balance problems (A brand new player's feed back)

I just picked up dead by daylight maybe 8ish days ago for free on Epic, at first I was playing survivor with my friends but I found it to be kinda easy, don't get me wrong when I was against very good or very lucky killers I got destroyed but most matches were very uneventful... so I got bored and started playing as killer. That was a mistake, I was immediately curb-stomped by nearly every survivor. Not only would the survivors out play me at every single turn they would also mock me and grief me while doing so. I have had matches where an entire team of survivors followed me around the entire match disabling every hook I tried to use, and 1 million and a half other infuriatingly embarrassing defeats.

 After it became painfully clear to me that I needed to improve I began searching the internet for advice and, with the help of various different tips, tricks and Analysis videos done by an array of very high rank killers... I did end up getting much much better. 

 However, despite now winning at least a bit less then a quarter of my matches, sometimes even getting a clean sweep and killing every survivor... every single match felt like a complete war of attrition.

I'm supposed to be playing the role of a slasher style killer from a horror film but none of the survivors fear me, they just follow me around and grief me and mocked me the entire time.

The only way it becomes possible to win a match as killer is to spend hours upon hours upon hours of researching the meta and game play theory of this game, and then when you actually get into a match you have to perform perfectly... you can't make any mistakes, you have to be on high alert and have a thousand yard stare like you're suffering from crippling post-traumatic stress disorder.

 Due to the idea if you lose even a single second of proper time management the survivors can pull ahead of you by a mile, for a killer to win they have to play near-perfectly and you're under huge pressure to perform at literally every single second, playing this game even when you win as killer becomes an incredibly frustrating and stressful experience, even when I kill all 4 survivors I feel worse than I did when the match started.

 Winning at this game is like trying to win an argument against a psychopath, you can't truly win because the survivors aren't playing the game, they're playing YOU.... sure you killed them all but at what cost? Your mental health?

 I'm making this post to explain how I feel and to explain my subjective experiences with the game in hopes that the devs may see this and, in the interest of making their own game less stressful to play... buff The Killers, all you would have to do to fix this problem is to give the killers a 2% speed boost in all of their animations.... or perhaps make it possible to kill survivors through more methods then just hooking them (it's very frustrating to hit the same survivor 4 to 8 times with a deadly weapon only for them to still be alive). There may be other solutions to this problem but as long as this problem persists I unfortunately can't enjoy playing your game... it stresses me out even when I win... winning as killer doesn't feel like winning it feels like you just barely survived.... Which is how someone escaping a killer should feel not the killer themselves.

 I am convinced that if hell is a real place then every serial killer who's ever died is living out an experience identical to playing dead by daylight as a killer... Having to hunt down seemingly immortal people who no matter how many times you hit them with your hammer, knife, Axe or whatever just refuse to die and also spend the entire time mocking you is no doubt a killers truest hell.